Loving and Letting Go
It's often said that when you love someone, you must know when it's time to let them go. I've now experienced this profound truth twice in my life. Letting someone go, even when you truly love them, isn't about harboring feelings of disgust or hate; rather, it's an act of releasing them in love and light. You send them on their way with joy and happiness, wishing them the best in their journey to find their true selves and ultimate happiness. You cheer for them, celebrating their growth and success, and embrace their highest good with a full heart.
One night, I found myself in a space of true love and light as I officially released one of the greatest souls I've ever met to their highest potential. The pain of this release was indescribable, yet the joy outweighed the sorrow. It was the most beautiful act of letting go I have ever experienced, knowing that my presence in their life played a role in helping them become a better version of themselves. This realization, that I had the power to positively impact another's life, is one of the most spectacular gifts I've ever had the chance to give.
As I grieve the loss of this future connection, I find solace in cherishing the memories of our past together. I believe there is no greater love than selflessly letting go and watching someone shine in their truth. My heart is both happy and sad as I turn this page in my life, but I do so with gratitude and a heart full of pure love as I embark on this new journey.
**Honoring Myself, This Connection, and the Future**
In moving forward, I’ve reflected on how I can honor myself, the connection we shared, and the future that lies ahead. Here are four ways I plan to do this:
1. Embracing Self-Care and Healing: The first step in honoring myself is to prioritize self-care and healing. This means taking the time to process my emotions, reflect on the lessons learned, and nurture my well-being. By doing so, I am acknowledging the significance of this chapter in my life and allowing myself to heal fully.
2. Celebrating the Impact of the Connection: To honor the connection we shared, I will continue to celebrate the positive impact it had on my life. This person helped me grow and see the world from a new perspective, and for that, I am grateful. I will cherish the memories and the lessons learned, keeping them as a reminder of the beautiful experiences we shared.
3. Setting Healthy Boundaries: As I move into the future, setting healthy boundaries is essential. This involves understanding my needs and limits in future relationships and being clear about them from the outset. By doing so, I honor my own well-being and ensure that my future connections are built on mutual respect and understanding.
4. Staying Open to New Possibilities: Lastly, I will honor the future by staying open to new possibilities. Letting go of this connection doesn’t mean closing myself off to love. Instead, it’s an opportunity to welcome new experiences and people into my life. I will approach the future with an open heart, ready to embrace whatever comes my way with optimism and joy.
The name of this person will always be sacred to me. In any future relationship, my partner will know the value this individual held in my life. It’s essential never to regret the people who change us; each connection shapes us in unique ways. With love and light, I released one of my greatest joys and now look forward to the future with optimism and joy.
To this person, I wish endless joy, light, and love. May you find your true happiness and fulfillment, and know that I will be cheering you on for a lifetime. As for me, it’s time to embrace my own journey, filled with hope and the promise of new beginnings.
Always. #joy ✌️🏝❤️
