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Hi I Am Kandis.

I’m just a bad-ass, strong willed girl…trying to figure out who the hell I am here.

I am living authentically in every way. Some people can’t deal with it. I say love me anyway.

Standing In My Light

Standing In My Light

There’s a moment that comes softly, sometimes, as if the universe is whispering a secret straight to your heart. It arrives quietly but strikes something deep, taking root around your memories, your hidden pains, and the quiet dreams you’ve barely dared to hope for.

I found myself sitting still, feeling a message take hold. It was simple: stand in the light and be seen as you are. Yet, it cracked me open. The weight of those words settled in, pressing against places I’d kept in the shadows, parts of myself I feared wouldn’t be loved or understood. And just like that, the tears started to fall—not out of sadness, but out of the quiet relief that comes when something true touches the soul.

For so long, I think I’d been hiding. Maybe we all do, in our own way, because life has a way of teaching us to tuck things away: the dreams that seem too big, the fears that feel too real, the mistakes we wish we hadn’t made. We curate ourselves, crafting a version we hope is easier for others to love. We smile when we don’t feel strong, say “I’m fine” when our hearts are heavy, and hide the scars that tell the stories of our survival.

But there I was, caught in a message that felt like an invitation—a soft, loving invitation to stand tall and be brave enough to be exactly who I am. It wasn’t about perfection or performance, but about realness and vulnerability.

And, oh, isn’t it something? The idea that we can embrace our flaws and scars and let them tell their tales without shame or fear of rejection. That we can be worthy of love, right now, exactly as we are. It was a powerful reminder that true love, whether it comes from within or from others, doesn’t flow from the masks we wear or the roles we play. It flows from the courage we show when we step into the light, unguarded and open.

So, in that moment, I made a quiet promise to myself, one I’m still learning to keep every day: to stop holding back, to be gentle with my imperfections, and to let my light and my shadows exist side by side. Because there’s a beauty in owning every inch of your story, in letting your soul be seen. And it’s okay if it takes time to feel safe doing that.

We all deserve that freedom—to stand unhidden, to feel the warmth of our own authenticity, and to know we belong not because we’re flawless, but because we’re human. Perhaps it’s time we all lean into that light a little more and celebrate not just our triumphs, but the bravery it takes to show up, imperfections and all, every single day.

So here I am, finding a place where hope and healing and truth all collide, and where I can finally say, “This is me.” Unhidden, unafraid, and ready to be seen.

Joy. It’s a Choice.

Joy. It’s a Choice.