GlitterStorm

Sometimes life has a way of coming at us full speed, like a glitter bomb we didn’t see coming. There’s no warning, no neat and tidy path—it just bursts, and suddenly we’re standing in a swirl of color, light, and a mess that somehow, weirdly, feels like magic. That’s where I find myself right now, and if you’re reading this, maybe you’re in a similar place too.

Life has thrown a lot my way lately, and yet, amid the whirlwind, there’s this strange beauty, this quiet kind of magic. Every day, I’m learning to hold on a little tighter to what really matters—my girls, my family, and even those parts of myself I used to push aside. Moving forward feels like stepping into that glitter storm, not knowing where each piece will land but finding joy in watching it all fall.

Sure, there are hard moments. Life isn’t just sparkles and sunshine; sometimes it’s heartbreak that leaves you feeling hollow. But somehow, even in the mess, I’m realizing there’s always something worth holding on to. It’s not about knowing how every piece will fall; it’s about trusting that it’ll settle into something beautiful, even if it’s different from what I’d planned.

So here’s a bit of what I’ve learned about finding beauty in the chaos, and maybe it’ll help you if you’re in your own glitter storm.

### 1. **Embrace the Unknown (Even When It’s Uncomfortable)**

One of the hardest lessons I’ve faced is letting go of the need to control every detail. Let’s be real—control feels safe. But life isn’t always about the perfectly laid plans. Sometimes, it’s about stepping forward without a map and trusting that the path will reveal itself as we go. Try to let yourself lean into the unknown; take it as a chance to explore what could be instead of fearing what isn’t certain.

**Tip:** The next time you’re overwhelmed, take a breath and remind yourself that it’s okay not to know. Uncertainty can be a chance for discovery if we give ourselves a little grace.

### 2. **Hold Tight to What Truly Matters**

When everything feels like it’s falling apart, it’s so easy to get lost in the chaos. But in moments like these, I’m learning to focus on what truly matters—the people, the little joys, the love I feel for those around me. I think of my daughters, my family, the laughter, the hugs. These moments ground me, reminding me that no matter how wild the glitter storm is, there are constants in my life that keep me steady.

**Tip:** Try making a list of your “glitter” moments—the small, real things that light you up inside. It could be a memory, a person, a place. Whenever you’re feeling lost, revisit this list. It’s amazing how those moments can help you find your way back.

### 3. **Find Beauty in the Mess (It’s There, I Promise)**

Sometimes the beauty of life is in the imperfections, the places where things didn’t go as planned but turned out even better. Leaning into life’s messiness has taught me to appreciate those imperfect, unfiltered moments for what they are. The glitter never falls perfectly, and that’s okay—there’s beauty in watching it drift and knowing that it’ll settle in its own way.

**Tip:** Let go of the need for everything to be “picture perfect.” Life’s real moments are often the messy ones, and they’re usually the ones that mean the most in the end.

### 4. **Love the Parts of Yourself You Once Tried to Hide**

Life’s storms have a funny way of showing us parts of ourselves we’d rather not see. But I’ve found that the more I accept those pieces, the more whole I feel. Instead of rejecting those parts, I’m learning to love them, even when it’s hard. Those broken parts have been my greatest teachers; they’ve shown me resilience, compassion, and strength.

**Tip:** Next time you feel like rejecting a part of yourself, ask, “What has this part taught me?” Sometimes our biggest struggles end up being our greatest gifts.

### 5. **Trust That It Will All Come Together**

This one’s tough. Trust isn’t easy when you’re in the middle of chaos. But I’ve come to believe that even the messiest, most scattered moments have a purpose. Life doesn’t always make sense in the moment, but looking back, I can see how each piece has fit together. It’s like stepping back from a painting you thought was all random strokes, only to see the bigger picture take shape.

**Tip:** When things feel chaotic, remind yourself that this moment is just one piece of a larger story. Trust that each piece will find its place, even if you can’t see it now.

So, if you’re standing in your own glitter storm, not knowing where it’ll all land, know that you’re not alone. Let yourself feel the magic, even when it’s messy. Hold on to what matters, love the broken parts, and trust that somehow, in the end, this glittery chaos will settle into something beautiful.