Hard to Hold
I am not always easy to hold—not because I’m unlovable or unapproachable, but because my energy can be intense. When a woman fully embraces her divine, healed power, it can be challenging for a man who hasn’t yet tapped into his own divine masculine strength to support her. This often highlights their own unhealed areas and the work they still need to do to become her equal. As I continue to step into my healed feminine energy, I realize it’s okay to be “hard to hold.” I refuse to compromise my peace and healing just to be with someone who isn’t ready. That’s perfectly fine with me. Until then, I will embrace being hard to hold, knowing that one day, someone will come along who can meet me where I am, and together, we’ll support each other.
In our journey to embrace and embody our divine power, whether masculine or feminine, we often find ourselves challenged by the dynamics of relationships. This challenge, however, is a beautiful opportunity to explore what it truly means to stand in our power. Here are five ways to cultivate your divine power and embrace your true self:
1. **Self-Awareness and Reflection**
Take time to understand your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Journaling, meditation, or quiet reflection can help you identify areas of strength and those that need healing. Awareness is the first step toward growth and transformation.
2. **Embrace Vulnerability**
Being in your divine power means embracing vulnerability as a strength, not a weakness. Open up to your emotions and allow yourself to feel deeply. Sharing your true self with others can create profound connections and foster healing.
3. **Set Healthy Boundaries**
Protect your peace by setting and maintaining healthy boundaries. Know what you need and communicate it clearly. Boundaries help preserve your energy and create space for growth and respect in your relationships.
4. **Cultivate Inner Peace**
Find practices that help you maintain inner peace, such as meditation, yoga, or spending time in nature. Inner peace provides a solid foundation from which you can operate in your divine power, unaffected by external chaos.
5. **Pursue Growth and Learning**
Continuously seek opportunities for growth and learning. Whether through reading, taking courses, or engaging in meaningful conversations, expanding your knowledge and perspectives helps you evolve and strengthens your divine power.
Embracing your divine power is a journey that requires patience, self-love, and commitment. By following these practices, you can step into your true potential and attract relationships that honor and support your authentic self. Remember, being "hard to hold" is not a flaw but a testament to your strength and readiness for a partner who can truly match your energy. #joy ✌️🏝❤️
